Saturday, February 4, 2012
OJ Confessions
Needless to say Asher forgave me & we got her all cleaned up, but I can't help still semi laughing even as I am writing this. Its like one of those crazy scenes out of a sitcom or something. I feel so bad. But yeah, now that I have told on myself I do feel a lil' better. I know some of you mommies out there have similar stories of absolutely insane things you have done while pregnant, so stop laughing & shaking your head at me lol.
Have a good night all! Good stuff...
-M&M Momma
Thursday, February 2, 2012
6 Fun Filled Activities
New is good. Yes, it can be a lot of work sometimes to come up with new & creative activities/adventures, but if we at least try to do something new once every week or every other week, you will truly get to see just how excited your kids can get as you expand their lil' minds & break out of routine from time to time! So, to kick start the year & lighten the load a lil' I thought I would post 12 ideas I have recently come across to hopefully benefit you & your kids.
1) LET IT GROW! Let it grow! Let it grow!
Since it is the beginning of a new year, my husband & I thought it would be so fun to have the kids plant their own flowers. This activity is awesome because it can be super empowering, help reemphasize the concept of responsibility & also how things grow/change. First, the girls got to go to the store with their dad & help pick everything they would need out. They loved how they got to pick the color/design on their flowers pots, the types of flowers they wanted to plant, & etc. Even lil' Aussie got to take part in this activity (why not?). After they got home, we explained to them what we were going to do & why we were going to do it. We talked about why we have to put in the soil 1st & why we had to dig a hole & push the seeds deep down. We talked about what plants need to grow & how they were going to be responsible for making sure their plants got these things. As those lil' ladies planted their seeds, put their pots in a sunny spot, & watered them their faces truly beamed with pride!
Over the past few weeks those girls have been so faithful in taking their job seriously & they are finally starting to see the results. You can even make a science project out of it by having them draw what they see over the course of time. Good stuff!
| Ashy giving her "silly eye" lol |
| Clapping for herself :) |
2) Painting Indoors
Since I am not supposed to getting up as much these days, my mom was kind enough to put together a new art box for the "A Team". I had showed it to them when we 1st got it & they immediately were drawn to the potentially messiest thing in there-paint! This activity I am usually down for, but because I was unable to oversee this project to the extent I usually would I decided to give them each a paintbrush & a "cup of paint" (aka a cup of water) instead. "Will you please go & paint my house pink with sparkles. I also need my fence painted green", I asked. At 1st they just stared at me a bit puzzled until a few second later they caught on. They immediately ran to their playhouse & began "painting" away. It was so cute as they would keep running back to my house every 10 or 15 minutes asking for a new paint assignment or reporting back to me a new paint job they had commissioned for themselves. They would have seriously done this activity every day the rest of the week, but I didn't let them. I try to space those activities/trips that they especially like out because otherwise they lose their special & it is not such a treat the next time they get to do it.
| Austin trying to get in on the action! |
3) Mining for Gold
This activity I have not tried with my kids yet, but we used to do it at my old job & those kids adored it. All you need to do is collect some rocks & then spray paint them gold. The next step is to hide them in a sandbox (If you do not have 1, you can get creative & hide the "gold" in a designate dirty zone or fill up a big Tupperware with oatmeal oats or something). Next, equip your kids with some gold finding tools like shovels, sifters, buckets, & etc. then you are ready to go. Usually kids will get excited if your are excited, so make a big deal about how they get to go out & look for these special treasures. Before you do the activity you could even find a kids book from the library about panning/mining for gold or find a video so they can see how its done.
4) Painting Outside
Sure painting inside can be fun, but it can also be very exciting (and less messy) to paint outside. We just got the girls some watercolors, paintbrushes, a cup of water, & a huge roll or IKEA paper & rolled it out on the driveway & let them go at it. They loved being able to paint on this extra long sheet of paper while also watching the cars go by & kids playing. My husband even washed their hands & dragged out the picnic table so that they could also enjoy some lunch outside before returning to this very relaxing project. I thought it was cool how he used the long roll of paper rather than separate sheets because it presented a great opportunity to share with each other & just enjoyed laying on their lil' bellies painting next to each other.
5) Get Out & Do Something New
Sometimes it takes some serious detective work, but in every state there are things for kiddos to do. It is important, especially if you are a SAHM (stay at home mom), to get your kids out & about every now & then. A lot of places offer tours if you are just willing to ask. Why can't they go see how a pizza is made or how a grocery store operates? Aidann has especially shown a huge interest in cows recently, so we are setting up a trip for her to visit Shamrock Farms where she can not only watch actual cows get milked, but get an idea how milk is even bottled & shipped. There are also zoos, ice skating rinks, parks, candy factories, & etc. You can even just set up play dates with other mommies you know. Assign someone the snack & someone else an art project or group game & rotate. Classes are also great way to get the kids out of the house like sports, dance, Gymboree, etc. Some libraries also offer free weekly programs for kids to enjoy or some bigger activities throughout the month (movie day, a bear picnic, magicians, & so forth).
6) Laundry Basket Demolition
This is probably 1 of my energetic husband's favorite activities to do with the girls. Awhile back we purchased these big cardboard blocks by Imaginarium. The girls love to build big towers or castles out of them. Well, 1 day my husband decided give the girls rides in the laundry basket & pull them all around the house & then right through their creation sending it crashing down on top of them. I definitely recommend doing this on carpet & using the cardboard blocks so it can stay a fun activity & no one gets hurt. This game is actaully good when you have multiple kids because everyone must participate in building the tower each time if they want to have a turn in the basket later on. Then only 1 kid gets to ride in the basket while the rest of the kids stay clear & we encourage them to cheer & be happy for their sibiling. Then when their turn rolls around, the same positive behavior & participation is expected out of the other siblings.
| If this fun activity doesn't wake them up, nothing will. It was like 9am, lol. |
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
This Weekend...
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Words Cannot Express...
I am so happy to be back on this thing, its amazing! My family has been through a lot this past month, but we have only come out stronger & closer than ever. The baby & I are doing much better, thank you for all of the love & support, but I am still pretty much confined to the bed or a nice comfy chair for now. Still, you know I did not let those circumstances keep this mommy "down". I have been forced to get even more creative & "hire" a new photographer for some adventures (Thanks, Babe lol). This blog officially turned 1 years old January 22nd, 2012 & I have enjoyed ever moment of writing this thing. Now, 30 listed "followers" & over 9000 views later, I am so glad/honored that my words have been able to help, encourage, inspire, or simply just make you laugh or realize you are not alone in this whole parenting thing. So, without further delay lets get back into this thing!!!
-M&M Momma
A few random photos. Some are before everything happened & I wasn't able to get them up. Enjoy :)
| The "bump" has definitely gotten a lot bigger since this!!! |
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
I'll Be Back
Because of recent events that have transpired over the holiday, I will be taking the month of January off to focus on the family & our soon coming 4th baby girl, Adley Sarah. I appreciate all of the prayers & love! All of 6 of Us are doing great & are only going to come out stronger after conquering this situation! Thanks, Faithful Fans!
See you in February!!!
-M&M Momma
Monday, January 2, 2012
We Can't Always Be The Answer
As a parent, sometimes as important as it is to be "ON IT" (past post) in areas, we also need to know when to back up a lil' bit so that we are not always our childrens' solution to problems that arise.
When our child is having difficulties doing something by themselves, it is extremely tempting to just step in immediately & fix it. This is almost second nature for us as parents. But first, we need to pull on the reigns a bit, stop & let the child try to do it on their own! - even when they want to give up immediately because it appears to be "too hard" to them. A common incidence that comes to mind in which my girls try to use the easy scapegoat of "calling on mom for help" is usually when they have made a big mess of toys or spilled something & they have no clue where to begin. Although I do believe that sometimes they sincerely feel overwhelmed, I also realize that I am NOT helping them if I just jump in & do everything for them (even though many times it would be faster & easier in the short run for me to just do it for them). It is vital to teach them that they ARE capable & that quitting before even trying is not the right solution. Kids can actually surprise, even themselves, with what they are capable of if they simply choose to try!
We really shouldn't be doing anything that our kids can do for themselves because on a level we are actually robbing them of fantastic opportunities to build their self confidence!
When a child comes across something new or something they are little less familiar with, they might need a lil' assistance, but instead of outright doing something for them, we can try teaching them by 1st trying to walk them through it verbally & then showing them, if it is still necessary to do so. Maybe even after we have accomplished whatever it is they needed help with, we can go back & then have them try to do it themselves by mimicking what we just showed them (like tying their shoes). After they do complete something they initially wanted to give up on, we need to make sure that we shed light on the fact that because they stayed persistent , it paid off. Also, ask them if they are "proud of themselves?" because that is the most important thing, especially in comparison to doing things to "please others".
"I CAN'T" is a bad word & should not be allowed in their lil' vocabulary. They are capable and CAN do all things, maybe they might need a lil' help or practice at 1st, but we don't need to be the ones trying to put those kinds of limitations on our children. We need to be our children's biggest supporters & cheerleaders, while also practicing what we preach in our own lives. With the right attitude, its amazing what a lil' child can accomplish on their own! From cleaning up after themselves when they play (we can start teaching this at about 1 1/2 yrs old, if not earlier) to eventually getting dressed all by themselves & tying their own shoes! And remember to always applaud their efforts!
Sometimes, as a parent, it is also hard not to step in every time when you overhear your child having an argument with 1 of their siblings. We tend to just jump in all the way every time & just solve it for all parties involved as quickly as possible. This is we, the parent playing the role of referee. What really does that help? If we are not teaching our children to work on solving/working through their own problems (developing problem solving skills), then its like we are "stunting their growth" in an area. From a young age, we need to help our kids to think things through. If you hear them fighting over a toy, maybe step in after awhile with both kids (make sure they are listening & giving you eye contact) & instead of just taking the toy away from everyone, help them think about what a few creative solutions might be. If they are having trouble formulating some on their own, then maybe you can help them out a lil' by making a few viable suggestions. For example: "Sally had the toy 1st so maybe she should get to play with it for 5 or 10 minutes & then she could share & let Johnny take a turn next". Kids are smart if we just give them that lil' guidance they need from time to time. As much as we would like to be, we can't be with our kids 24/7 helping them solve all their problems. We have to equip them with various problem solving skills from a young age that they will be able to develop & utilize throughout their entire life. And again this is yet another opportunity for you to help your child build self confidence and realize their own capabilities.
-M&M Momma